Should Christians have small families?

The Global Demographic Shift: Declining Birth Rates

The world is facing a silent but profound shift in its very structure – a demographic transition marked by declining birth rates across numerous nations. More and more countries are recognizing that they are entering a demographic disaster as they witness their birth rates fall. This phenomenon, while presenting significant economic and social challenges for these nations, also unveils a unique and timely opportunity for Christians. Understanding the biblical perspective on children and family in contrast to prevailing cultural attitudes becomes paramount in navigating this changing landscape.

China’s Demographic Crisis: The Legacy of the One-Child Policy

This demographic crisis is not a localized issue; it is a global trend. While the specifics vary from country to country, the overarching theme of declining fertility is evident. China serves as a stark and prominent example of this predicament. Their situation is particularly noteworthy due to the decades-long implementation of the one-child policy, a population control measure that has had far-reaching and now increasingly problematic consequences. The repercussions of intentionally limiting family size are now being felt acutely, as highlighted in a recent Newsweek article that discusses China’s plan to tackle this birth rate crisis. The implementation of the one-child policy in China occurred during a period when the nation viewed large families – sometimes averaging five, six, or even seven children per family – as a major impediment to economic prosperity and growth, given the widespread poverty at the time. However, demographic experts generally agree that a total fertility rate (TFR) of 2.1 children per couple is necessary simply to maintain the population within a given society. This figure accounts for the reality that not every woman will bear children, and not all children will survive to reproductive age. China’s current TFR, alarmingly, has fallen to 1.0. This dramatic decline presents a severe challenge for the nation’s future, as there will be an insufficient number of working-age individuals to support an aging population requiring end-of-life care and to sustain the economy.

The Paradox of Population Decline and Economic Hardship

The paradox of this situation is striking. What was once perceived as the problem – too many people leading to poverty – is now revealing its opposite: a declining population is emerging as a direct pathway to economic hardship for a country. This realization brings us back to fundamental questions about our worldview, particularly what the Bible teaches about children. Countries like China, Japan, and Russia, along with the United States (where the fertility rate is below 2.1, although somewhat masked by immigration), are all experiencing this demographic decline and unfolding crisis. In fact, apart from Africa, every continent on the planet is facing population decline.

Government Responses to Declining Birth Rates

In response to this crisis, countries will inevitably have to adopt strategies to either mitigate the impact of population decline or attempt to reverse these trends, often through a combination of both. Softening the impact might involve enhancing benefits for older citizens and strengthening social security nets to provide longer-term support. Ironically, China, among other nations, will likely need to raise the retirement age, effectively keeping more people in the workforce for a longer period. Additionally, governments may explore subsidizing childcare, creating services for pregnant women, expanding paternity leave, offering more workplace flexibility, and providing tax benefits and housing exemptions to incentivize childbearing. Essentially, many nations are now considering measures to financially encourage their populations to have more children, a stark contrast to previous population control efforts. The aforementioned Newsweek article underscores the immediate problem as indicated by current TFR measurements. However, a deeper understanding requires acknowledging the long-term effects of policies like the one-child policy, which instilled a societal norm that a woman could only be a good mother to one child. Even after the termination of the one-child policy around 2015-2016, there was no significant surge in birth rates. This suggests that the decades of propaganda had a lasting impact on people’s perceptions of family size. Furthermore, as China’s economy grew, the cost of living also increased, leading younger generations to prioritize material possessions over marriage and larger families, a trend observed in other economically prosperous nations as well. China, in this sense, has inadvertently created a complex challenge where wealth and leisure have seemingly contributed to a decline in family growth.

Shifting Cultural Norms and the Opportunity for Christians

While China’s approach to slowing birth rates involved drastic measures like forced abortions under the one-child policy, other nations have also experimented with promoting abortion, contraception, and delayed marriage. However, the prevailing winds are now shifting, creating a significant new opportunity for the Christian church and its mission. This demographic crisis presents a moment to challenge prevailing cultural worldviews with a biblical perspective, particularly as governments in countries like China may find themselves in need of a more Judeo-Christian understanding of family, marriage, and children. This is a chance for Christians to demonstrate the fundamental differences between secular and biblical views on these essential aspects of life.

The Gospel as an Entry Point in Addressing the Demographic Crisis

The concept of an “entry point for the gospel” becomes particularly relevant in this context. In the case of China, if the government aims to increase services for pregnant women, as mentioned in the Newsweek article, this nebulous statement can become a concrete opportunity for Christian organizations and individuals to step in and assist in providing these services. Governments often rely on broad, policy-driven tools, whereas Christian communities can offer more personal and compassionate support. Similarly, while government initiatives like tax deductions or support for the elderly might marginally influence birth rates, a more profound and lasting impact may require promoting a biblical worldview of marriage, family, and children. While the Chinese government cannot explicitly endorse biblical principles, the practical outworking of those principles in strong families and a flourishing society may become increasingly evident and desirable.

Challenging Prevailing Cultural Attitudes Towards Family Size

The challenge for the Christian community lies in whether it has, to some extent, adopted the prevailing cultural attitudes regarding family size. Have Christians inadvertently conformed to a worldview that considers one or two children acceptable, perhaps stretching to three, while viewing larger families with apprehension? The prevailing cultural narrative, heavily influenced by concerns about overpopulation stemming from the 1960s, often frames larger families as irresponsible and unsustainable. This contrasts sharply with historical norms, where larger families were generally accepted without question. It is crucial for Christians to re-examine their own beliefs and reactions to family size, even questioning their internal responses when hearing news of a family member expecting a sixth child. The shift from viewing children as a blessing to potentially seeing them as a burden is a significant departure from a biblical worldview.

The Foundational Biblical Mandate: Be Fruitful and Multiply

Genesis 1:28 stands as a foundational text, where God blessed humanity and commanded them to “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it”. Reflecting on this, even individuals who grew up within Christian contexts may realize they initially adopted the prevailing attitudes of their time, perhaps envisioning only one or two children for their own families. The contrast between the command in Genesis 1 and the admonition in Romans 12:2 to “not be conformed to the patterns of this world” highlights the need for a conscious and often radical shift in perspective. The experience of a friend being congratulated with sarcasm for having a fifth child illustrates the extent to which even within Christian circles, the dominant cultural view on family size can prevail. The underlying worldview that children are a problem, rather than a blessing, has unfortunately permeated even Christian thought. Genesis 1:28 offers a radical counterpoint, inviting us to see children as a blessing, a treasure, and a sign of God’s joy and desire for human flourishing, which encompasses more than just material prosperity.

A Biblical Perspective on the Value of Children (Old Testament)

To further understand this biblical perspective, we can turn to the insights of Andreas Kostenberger, who in his book “God, Marriage, and the Family” outlines five basic approaches to the mindset of having children that align with biblical values.

Children as Image-Bearers of God

Firstly, the ancient Hebrews in the Old Testament inherently valued children because they were made in the image of God, endowing every individual with human dignity, worth, and value.

Fulfilling the Divine Mandate

Secondly, they viewed having children as a means of perpetuating humanity and fulfilling the divine mandate given in Genesis 1:28 to multiply, fill the earth, subdue it, and have dominion over it. The existence and growth of humanity were seen as intrinsically linked to bearing children.

Children as a Sign of God’s Favor and Blessing

Thirdly, the conception of children was understood as something that involved God’s active favor and blessing. The birth of a child was seen as a sign of God’s grace upon a woman and a family, with the corollary being that a closed womb was often interpreted as a sign of divine disfavor.

Children as an Economic Asset

Fourthly, children were valued as an economic asset to the family. Historically, and certainly in biblical times before the industrial and agricultural revolutions, children contributed to the family’s well-being by working, supporting family businesses, and eventually inheriting them. This perspective contrasts sharply with the modern view in many Western societies where children are often perceived as an economic liability, draining resources from the family over time.

Children and the Continuation of Family Legacy

Fifthly, there was a strong sense that parents live on through their children, ensuring the continuation of the family line and legacy. The Old Testament frequently mentions the fear of having one’s “seed cut off” or one’s “name blotted out,” and having children was the means to avoid this calamity and ensure a form of immortality through one’s descendants.

Taken together, these five points paint a holistic picture of children as valuable, necessary, an asset, an addition, and fundamentally good – something to be valued and actively sought after. This biblical perspective stands in stark contrast to modern attitudes that often treat children as products, where decisions about their existence and number are driven by personal desires and economic considerations, sometimes facilitated by technologies like IVF and abortion. The biblical view emphasizes that children are obtained with God’s help and therefore possess a special and eternal dignity.

Contrasting Worldviews: The Modern West vs. Other Cultures

It is important to acknowledge that not every culture has embraced the modern Western view of children. Many cultures around the world, including in parts of Africa, still hold a high view of family, marriage, and children, often influenced by both long-standing traditions and Christian beliefs. A 2010 study by USAID, surprisingly, revealed that children in African families often desire to have more children than in any other part of the world. In countries like Niger, some individuals express a desire to have as many as twelve children, seeing them as a blessing and a fulfillment in life, a view supported by their cultural context. While this is not a call for everyone to have large families, it underscores the existence of worldviews that inherently welcome children and do not view them as a problem.

Missions in the Context of Unintended Pregnancies

This divergence in worldview has significant implications for missions. The demographic crisis, particularly the increasing number of unintended pregnancies in a world where abortion is prevalent (with the US accounting for only 3% of global abortions annually), presents a vast mission field. Missionaries and local Christians are already engaging in various ways to address this, such as establishing pregnancy counseling centers near abortion clinics in hospitals. These centers offer a space for concerned individuals to speak with women considering abortion, not with the heavy hand of government policy or financial incentives, but through neighborly persuasion and by helping them to see the potential blessing of having a child. This context of compassionate counseling becomes an entry point for the entire gospel, allowing for the introduction of a God who can be trusted for provision and who has a plan for their lives, a plan that encompasses Christ, the cross, and new birth.

Conclusion: Embracing a Biblical Ethic of Family and Children

In conclusion, the global demographic crisis of declining birth rates, exemplified by the situation in China, presents a unique and crucial opportunity for Christians to engage with a world grappling with the consequences of a non-biblical worldview on family and children. By understanding and actively living out a biblical perspective that views children as a profound blessing, Christians can offer a compelling alternative to prevailing cultural narratives. This involves re-examining our own attitudes, challenging the notion that smaller families are inherently better, and embracing the value and inherent worth of every child as being made in God’s image. Moreover, this biblical worldview opens doors for mission and ministry, providing opportunities to support pregnant women and families, offer compassionate counseling, and ultimately introduce the life-giving message of the gospel in a world that is increasingly recognizing the challenges of a childless future. It is time for Christians to boldly embrace and articulate a biblical ethic regarding children and family, offering hope and a vision of human flourishing rooted in God’s design.

This article is adapted from the episode transcript.